Early in our marriage, my wife and I realized our weekly and sometimes daily grocery shopping was a major source of frustration and tension between us. We were both busy with our jobs, and we didn’t have time at the end of the work day to figure out what to cook for dinner. Planning ahead and shopping for a whole week’s dinners on the weekend helped, but the time that took was frustrating as well. Eventually we solved this problem by developing a system where we plan out a month’s worth of meals and purchase all their ingredients on the same day. [Read more...]
Links of Interest: Excellent WordPress Commercial Themes
Commercial WordPress themes are an excellent solution for my clients who need a quick turn-around, low cost solution. The key to this type of solution lies in your choice of theme vendors. Good pre-built themes combine easy customization, the right amount of options, and a clean under-lying codebase. These factors work together to give you a website that you can edit and your web developer can easily customize further for you if you have additional specifications beyond the theme’s defaults.
Keeping these things in mind, here are some of my favorite Commercial WordPress theme vendors:
- StudioPress - These guys are the makers of the Genesis Theme Framework. While the Genesis Theme is an excellent framework for building full-custom child themes, the StudioPress child theme collection is a well-rounded suite of designs suitable for a wide variety of projects.The Genesis child themes at StudioPress all feature clean code which allows me to make quick customizations for my client’s special requests.
- WooThemes – The WooThemes collection of themes is large and always growing. All of their themes feature a consistent, polished admin interface. Plus, their WooCommerce plugin is quickly becoming my favorite e-commerce solution.
- Themeforest – WordPress Category - The strength and weakness of the Themeforest WordPress Themes Category is the myriad of themes available. They have so many good looking themes available that it’s sometimes hard to settle on one you like.By and large, the underlying code for any Themeforest theme I’ve used has been to my satisfaction. The only drawback here is that many different developers contribute to their repository. Therefore, it often takes me a bit to get used to working with a theme that I’m unfamiliar with.
- ElegantThemes – One $39 subscription gives you access to all of the themes available at ElegantThemes. The quality of their themes is so good, I sort of wonder how they do it for that price. The only thing I don’t like about their themes is the default font size and font color for many of them. Often the text is too small and too faint; however, that can be fixed fairly easily with some CSS edits.
- WordPress.org Commercially Supported GPL Themes – The makers of WordPress have a listing of theme vendors on their website. It’s a great place to start your search for quality themes made by persons and companies with a good reputation in the WordPress Community.
Top News Stories of 2011

In January of this year I came up with the idea to keep a running list of the “Big News Stories of 2011″. It’s around this time of year, that I always enjoy thinking back on the memorable events of the past twelve months. In particular, I wanted to recall the news as I saw it. What were the events that came to my notice as they happened?
What follows is my list of the top news stories of 2011. It’s a wild understatement to say that it is by no means comprehensive. Oftentimes, it simply reflects the news as I saw it on the NBC Nightly News broadcast or read it on the NYTimes website. Regardless, it serves as a list which captures many stories of national interest during 2011. [Read more...]
Book Review: Bruce Catton’s A Stillness at Appomattox

The third book in Bruce Catton’s non-fiction Civil War trilogy, A Stillness at Appomattox, came to my attention via a lofty recommendation. It was described as an accurate, heavily footnoted work which reads like a well-written work of fiction. Reviewer John Miller commented, “If every historian wrote like Bruce Catton, no one would read fiction.” Another reviewer commented that he was so taken by the writing that he read the book in one sitting. With reviews such as these in mind, I began Catton’s book back in April of this year and finished it this week, and although I certainly didn’t read it all in one sitting, I did find it a very satisfying read.
For the genre of wartime histories, Catton’s work was ahead of its time. He puts you right in the thick of the action by relying on first-hand accounts from the soldiers who fought the war. Amidst the grand drama of the conflict, Catton shows you what it was like to be an infantry man marching for miles along alternately dry and dust choked roads or bogged down highways of mud. Perhaps for a moment you have time to make your bivouac and rest only to be summoned into battle, leaving your half-cooked breakfast on the fire. It’s as if Catton was there although he was writing nearly one-hundred years after the war.
Given the quality of Catton’s writing, you may wonder why it took me so long to read his book. Life circumstances aside, the book wasn’t a “page-turner” for me because it was a little too drawn out at times. However, despite the slow going, reading the book was a satisfying and rewarding glimpse into our history, the kind of thing that’s worth reading all the way through.
The book’s lasting image in my mind occurs on its last page. General Ulysses S. Grant’s army has surrounded General Robert E. Lee’s army outside the small Virginia hamlet of Appomattox Court House (this is the name of the town, not just a building). The armies have faced off against each other with the Rebels quickly realizing they must declare a truce or be annihilated. A great stillness takes over the land as the two great armies solemnly face one another. General Grant makes his way into town to meet with General Lee at the McClean House. Catton concludes his book by writing that “as [Grant and his generals] neared the end of their ride, a Yankee band in a field near the town struck up ‘Auld Lang Syne’” (377). Considering the great drama that has played out over the proceeding pages, that detail gave me a sublime sense of the moment. I could hear the sounds, see the men, and feel the emotion of a profound moment in our nation’s history. It’s details like these that Catton includes throughout his book, and they make his account of history come alive.
Thank You, Mr. Jobs


I learned about Jobs' death while browsing on my iPad.
As our second daughter was born a week and a half ago, I haven’t had time lately to peruse my usual news outlets. However, last night before bed, we’d laid Paige down, and I had a spare moment to browse the web on my iPad. I pulled up the NY Times, and I was greeted by the news that Steve Jobs had died. I was immediately taken by the sadness of his passing, a much admired tech-icon taken too soon.
This morning before I get to work, I’m aware of how much what I do has been influenced by Steve Jobs. I develop websites with my iMac. I stay up-to-date with the latest developments in web design by browsing the web and reading feeds on my iPad. Each day I talk to my clients on my iPhone. Yet, as I’ve written before, I’ve made the switch to Mac only recently. However, even before the switch, Steve Job’s fingerprints have been upon the tools of my trade.
The very concept of a “personal computer” found much of its genesis in Job’s mind. During his fabled visit to Xerox’s Palo-Alto Research Campus (PARC), it was Jobs who saw how the combination of a computer, a mouse and a graphical user interface (GUI) was the key to bringing computing power to the masses. Now thirty some-odd years later, I, like many other freelancers, benefit from the power of personal computing. Via these machines, we’re able to do meaningful work and make a living from the comfort of our home offices.
During our lifetimes, we’ve been witness to a remarkable explosion of technology. Steve Jobs stands out as a true innovator and visionary of our time. For those of us who work with, play with and use computers and mobile devices each day, we are indebted to Mr. Jobs’ skill, vision and aesthetic. Thank you, Mr. Jobs for your contributions to this world and our lives.
Celebrating 10 Years in Business

Tomorrow will be the 10th anniversary of michaelwender.com. I started this business in my old bedroom at my parents house, and through the years it has grown into an enterprise servicing over seventy clients all across the United States and Canada. I never dreamed I’d spend my career working from my own home, but along the way I’ve discovered that freelancing is truly my “dream job”. Funny thing is, ten years ago my career as a freelancer was almost over before it started…
“Do I really want to do this?”
Ten years ago my career aspirations were suffering from a serious lack of motivation. In June of 2001, I was laid off from my job as a web designer/graphic artist for QuVIS1 Semiconductor (Quality Visual Image Systems) in Oak Ridge. During the previous year, I’d taken over their entire online branding. However, being primarily an engineering/technical company, their management under utilized my creative services. I got burned out because my skills and talents didn’t amount to much in the overall scheme of the company. I was an expansive, round peg trying to fit in a small square hole.
I was so disenchanted with web design and graphic arts that I considered a career change. I had an offer to be a youth minister at a church in Orlando, Florida, and I was also having a blast working with youth at a church in Knoxville. Working with people has always been something I enjoy and do well and perhaps the ministry was where I should be. However, as I was considering my options, I also made plans to start my own freelance consultancy.
Tennessee’s “Silicon Gulch” Provides a Steady Stream of Clients
California may have “Silicon Valley”; however, Oak Ridge National Labs along with many other tech startups, make East Tennessee another hotbed of high technology jobs and opportunities. My brother, an electrical engineer and VP of Marketing for a micro-chip company, calls our region the “Silicon Gulch”.
Working for a year in the Oak Ridge tech sector provided me with a wealth of contacts. Tech savvy firms are always in need of graphic designers and web developers who can translate their jargon and concepts into marketing materials. Graphic designers who excel in this environment must have a rare combination of an artist’s heart and an engineer’s mind. This fits me to a “t” as I love to create while paying close attention to details and specifications. The day I was laid off, I received two offers for freelance work from our office mates at ASIC International.
My First Gig – Should I take it?
That summer I dabbled with a couple of freelance projects, but it wasn’t until Monday, September 17, 2001 that I took my first real, paying gig. It was a small software firm who’d heard about me through my brother and my work in Oak Ridge. They needed help with their logo, website and overall branding.
Prior to our meeting I was having doubts as to whether or not I should go. I was afraid I’d take the job and then discover I lacked the motivation to finish. But, thanks to my mother speaking frankly with me (yes, I owe a lot to my mother…and father too for that matter), I decided to go and see what would happen. I could always do this one project and move on to something else if I didn’t enjoy the work.
As it turns out, that first meeting renewed my love for what I do. I was called in as the expert, and my client allowed me to advise, consult and direct using my expertise. No longer burdened by a QuVIS middle-management that didn’t know what to do with me, now I was free to manage the project and help my client achieve their goals.
Working from Home for Ten Years
My biggest fear as I began my freelance career was that my skill-set would stagnate since I wasn’t working in close contact with others in my field. However, I soon found out that wasn’t the case. In fact, given my field, freelancing has helped to broaden my skill-set as I often must find solutions on my own without relying on an office-mate who has the answer.
This has been just one of the many perks and surprises I’ve gleaned from working from the “home office” through the years. Others include:
- Clients from all over – My primary means of gaining new clients has been via word-of-mouth referrals. However, I’ve gotten quite a few via my online footprint. I’ve gained one client from New Mexico simply because he liked my personal website. Many other clients have found me through various tutorials and screencasts I’ve published through the years. I currently work with clients in Georgia, North Carolina, New York, New Mexico and California.
- Serving as an “expert witness” – A couple of years back I was hired to serve as an “expert witness”, testifying about the semi-permanence and residual effects of person’s online activities.
- Discovering my “dream job” – The saying goes, “Find a job you love, and you’ll never work another day for the rest of your life.” When I graduated from Full Sail University in 1999, my plan to was to get a “dream job” working in special effects or digital animation in Southern California. But, as I followed my passions, I ended up working as a freelancer. Now, ten years into it, I must say it is my “dream job”. I love being able to use my expertise to help others accomplish their goals online.
- Being my own boss – There are more perks to this than just setting my own schedule. For example, when I’m racing to finish a project for a client, I love the fact that I don’t have to get approval from management if I determine purchasing some new software will help me to get the job done quicker.
The other day I was commenting how I don’t believe I have many (if any) friends who have been working the same job for the past ten years. I’ve found that becoming your own boss solves this problem. However, much as I’ve been working the “same” job for ten years, the technology I use to build websites has changed tremendously during that time. I’ve supplemented my skill-set by learning new programming languages, softwares, techniques and operating systems. Through it all, the one thing that has stayed the same is how much I enjoy helping my clients succeed online. The satisfaction I gain from this is what keeps me doing what I do. So, to all my clients, friends and family who have helped make me what I am today: Thank you! Here’s to the next ten years and beyond!
1QuVIS was a pioneer in digital cinema. Headquartered in Topeka, Kansas, they primarily worked with the film industry and were involved in several historic digital cinema “firsts” (e.g. first digital theatrical release, The Last Broadcast, 1998, Cannes Film Festival, Source: Wikipedia: Digital Cinema – Claims to significant events).
2QuVIS’ Oak Ridge offices were home to QuVIS Semiconductor. Our staff consisted of my brother, Reid Wender, James Miller and myself. We were working on using QuVIS’ technology to make high-quality Internet streaming video a reality.
New Business Cards, Conversation Starters

My new business cards arrived this past weekend. On the front they have my name, a listing of four areas of my expertise, and my email address. This is plenty enough information for someone to get in touch with me; however, given my dealings on the web, they lack many other communication options that I frequently use (e.g. telephone, website, Skype, Twitter, Facebook, mailing address, etc.). In addition, these are the first set of business cards I’ve ordered in at least seven or eight years.
Why the obscurity, and why no business cards for so long?
When you provide consulting services it’s important to know the type of client you’re targeting. While I aim to make the web easy for my clients, it’s important for them to have a certain level of computer literacy. If an email isn’t a sufficient means of first contact with me, then that person should probably look elsewhere for help. Being selective about who I work with saves frustration on both of our parts.
During the past ten years, I’ve provided web consulting services to a steadily growing list of clients. Some clients have been with me since day one, others have come aboard in recent months. I haven’t needed business cards because of client referrals and limited bandwidth. Getting other people talking about you and your business is the best way to grow. Service providers shouldn’t have to rely on themselves for sales. Concentrate on doing an excellent job for your current clients, and you’ll find that you’ll soon have your own “sales team” of satisfied customers.
Given my selectivity in taking on clients and my steady stream of referrals, Why get business cards now? As it turns out, I’ve been in several meetings lately where cards have been exchanged, and I’ve had nothing to give in return. I’m hoping this new set of cards will allow me to join in on the fun while keeping to my ideals of selectivity and new business by referrals. I designed these cards to start a conversation rather than seal the deal.
Sharing Your Expertise
In their 1993 paper, made famous in Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers, K. Anders Ericsson et al argue that to become an expert at something (think violinist, concert pianist, etc) you must log 10,000 or more hours of practice1. And, they don’t mean just any kind of practice. They refer to “a kind of practice that includes an ‘active search for methods to improve performance,’ immediate informative feedback, structure, supervision from an expert, and ‘close attention to every detail of performance “each one done correctly, time and again, until excellence in every detail becomes firmly ingrained habit”‘”2.
That equates to about ten years if you practice for twenty hours a week every week. In other words, rather than being the product of natural talent, expert proficiency, they argue, is a product of a lot of hard work. Of course, this flies in the face of our culture’s obsession with instant gratification and the quick fix. Want to be an expert at something? Read this book, apply these principles, summon your innate ability and BOOM! you’re there. Contrast this with a prescribed regimen of hard work, and it sounds like you’re taking advice from someone who still lives in a world filled with typewriters and rotary phones.
All of these ideas got me thinking about my career as a web developer. September 17th will mark ten years since I took my first project as a freelancer. During that time I’ve built a lot of websites, picked up several new skills and cultivated relationships with clients and colleagues which persist to this day. Although there are better designers and developers out there, in some sense of the word, having spent forty or so hours a week working on the web for ten+ years straight, I feel safe in saying I’m an expert at what I do: I help my clients go from concept to fully hosted website in as efficient and “painless” manner as possible. My business isn’t just about the websites I create, but also the client interaction that goes along with them. My development process as it stands now is the product of years of applied effort and cultivation of my craft. This has become evident to me via two recent interactions: one with a client and the other with a person I’ve been mentoring.
A couple of months ago, one of my clients asked me to train one of their staff who had been promoted to a new position. This new position combined both overall company marketing and branding along with responsibility, oversight and management of the company’s multiple websites.
Upon meeting this person, it was evident that he came from a good design background; however, he lacked any concept of how modern websites work. He was used to designing and building a website’s front-end without having to worry about the backend code, the database, and the site’s interaction with the server. This type of specialization is perfectly acceptable at a bigger company. Having specialists allows for certain efficiencies when teams are working together on projects. You do what you do well, while others do what they do well. However, this new position required that in addition to being a “web designer”, he also be a “web developer”, and my client wanted me to teach him. Without saying this out loud, I questioned whether my client’s request was possible. I can’t teach someone to do what I do over ten to twenty hours of consulting. But, I decided I’d try, and together we’d see what was possible.
As it turned out, my initial concerns held true. Over the course of many emails and a handful of on-site meetings, rather than working his way towards proficiency, this designer was becoming overwhelmed. Part of the problem was his desire to learn, and I don’t blame him. He had so much mental capital invested in marketing and branding for the entire company, that he didn’t have time for learning how to manage all the company’s websites. The more I worked with this person, the more apparent this situation became to me. So much in fact, that I wasn’t a bit surprised to learn later that he’d given them his notice. He’d found another job, and my guess is that it’s one where he can continue to specialize as a designer.
In the other situation I mentioned, I’ve been mentoring a friend by inviting him into my office to shadow me while I work. On and off for the past year and a half, I’ve spent a couple of hours with my protegé every other Friday afternoon. We’ve covered the gamut of what I do. I’ve shown him how I code sites, administer servers and create graphics. We’ve talked theory, trade-craft and business process. He’s been a great student and an avid learner. At times I douse him with a fire-hose of information, other times we focus on one detail. Along the way, things have begun to stick, and he has enjoyed several “Ah-ha!” moments. Given our limited time together, we both realize that this won’t make him an expert web developer, but it has broadened his “digital horizons” and sparked his creativity.
Lately I’ve been wondering, and this gets us to my real reason for writing this post, “What exactly would it take for me to bring my friend up to my level of expertise?” More time and practice would help, but how best to facilitate that? In addition, many of my clients share that it’s the little things, the in-tangibles like good communication and rapport that keep them coming back to use my services. It’s not so much that I’m a good web developer, it’s that my clients see me as a person of good character who handles their online needs. And, if that really is true about me, then training someone else to be all of those things involves more than just sharing information. It requires an apprenticeship.
If I really wanted to train my friend to do all that I do, one of the best ways to do it would be to have him move in and become a part of my family so we could share our lives together. This would require great sacrifice on both of our parts, but the close proximity would maximize the potential for learning and training. I wouldn’t be limited to sharing just technical knowledge. I could also share my lifestyle. I could show how I balance my professional and personal live and help him to do the same.
Now, before my friend or anyone else gets the idea that I’m accepting applications for an apprenticeship, I’ll let you know that I’m not currently up to this challenge. However, all this talk about sharing knowledge and lives has gotten me thinking about you. What is your expertise? What have you spent most of your time doing? Is it related to your career or a hobby? Are you an expert mechanic? Do you have three degrees worth of “life-time experience” raising children? Do you have excellent inter-personal skills honed from a lifetime of studying and getting to know people?
If you pause to think about it, you probably have some level of expertise at something. What is it, and how do you share it with others? Hopefully, I’ve gotten you thinking, and I’d love it if you’d please share your expertise in the comments…
1The role of deliberate practice in the acquisition of expert performance – By Ericsson, K. Anders; Krampe, Ralf T.; Tesch-Römer, Clemens, Psychological Review, Vol 100(3), Jul 1993, 363-406.
2Composition 1.01: How Email Can Change the Way Professors Teach – James Somers – The Atlantic
Summer Reading Highlights

I realize it’s a lost pastime in our culture; however, in the hopes that the right material will inspire some of you, here are some titles that I’ve either read recently or am currently working on:
Unbroken – A WWII Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption
Penned by the author of Seabiscuit, Laura Hillenbrand’s story of Louie Zamperini, “a juvenile delinquent-turned-Olympic runner-turned-Army hero”, is perhaps the most gripping and incredible biography I’ve read. It begins with Zamperini’s childhood, follows him into the Army and continues with his imprisonment in a Japanese POW camp. What’s more, the story doesn’t end there, and I found that what happened to Zamperini after the war was equally amazing.
Horse Soldiers: The Extraordinary Story of a Band of Soldiers Who Rode to Victory in Afghanistan
Beth got me this book for Father’s Day (great job honey!). It follows the stories of several highly trained U.S. soldiers who were the first into Afghanistan after 9/11. Working in small teams with tribal warlords fighting the Taliban, the soldiers relied upon horses for transportation as they waged a war with “smart bombs”, cunning, courage and bravery.
Sitting at the Feed of Rabbi Jesus – How the Jewishness of Jesus Can Transform Your Faith
I’m reading this book as a part of a summer reading group. The authors provide a treasure trove of scholarship which brings alive the time, place and culture in which Jesus lived. As I read, I’m gaining new insights into the 1st century Jewish mind. These insights are making the Scriptures come alive with connections and nuances that I’ve never seen before. This is a good book both for the knowledge it relays and the contemplation it inspires.
Got any other titles you think I should work in during the last days of summer? Be sure to leave your suggestions in the comments.


